Wednesday, January 03, 2007

Additional Resolution

Do you know how it feels like to start anew with nothing but problems in your life? Waking up suddenly feels like starting a car after a long winter. Although you know that most of the things you'll come across for the next couple of weeks is either arduos misadventures or constant dissapointments, you still have to get up and get out. Otherwise you'll just be stuck there for the rest of the season. You can't put your life on hold! That's just a waste of time.

Presuming that you have an entourage of close friends nearby, they sure will help you to get through those couple of weeks, but what if that's one of your problems? No, I'm not saying that you're misanthropic. Let's just imagine that you're in a delicate situation with some of the buddies... and the rest of them... well, let's assume that they've got bigger things on their mind for the time being. Asking any of them for help surely will not be as easy as it used to be, let alone them offering you help.

It's only a matter of time till you breakdown and fall. Then what will you do? Who the hell will help you get up? No one. No one but yourself! So this is my overdue additional resolution: to be more self reliant for the things that really matters in life . Ask me how it went 360 days from now, if you please.

4 comments:

Orchida D'Orca said...

forgive and forget,,
~taken from a (war)movie (forgot the name)~

well,
love means forgiving your loved ones even before they say sorry,,
~taken from Love Story-Erich Segal~

friendship is love,,
friends forgive and forget mistakes,,
and move on, still being friends,,

Helix said...

Hey kiddo, is that ur resolution? Cos if it is, it's a good one!

Orchida D'Orca said...

noup,,,
don't think so,,
cuz i'm a forgiving kind of girl,,
being angry of something doesn't mean i would forgive and forget about it right?
so,,
well,,
i've read this religious book about being angry to friends,,
it was said that you could get angry if you would,,
but just don't bring your anger to sleep,,
so,
in this new year,,
just want to stick to that wisdom,,
it's not a resolution though,,
btw,
sorry if u loathe my ngambek,,
sometimes can't stand your jokes,,

Orchida D'Orca said...

mm,,, i mean,,
sometimes ur jokes cut my heart,,